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Susan's phone
call: I saw your ad in The San Diego Reader and I need to
get a resume as soon as possible. I was talking to a friend of mine
last night and he told me about a job opening at his company. I
need a resume right away! How long will it take to get it finished?
Stan's phone
call: A friend of mine suggested I give you a call. I'm really fed
up with my job and I guess I better get a resume put together so
I can get out of this place. What do you need from me? Do I have
to do this in person? Or can I email you?
Pete's phone
call: I probably should get my resume together. I've heard a lot
of rumors floating around and maybe my company is going under or
downsizing. How much does a resume cost?
Susan, Stan
and Pete are all clients with different backgrounds, different anxieties,
different skills and different goals, but they all came to me for
the same reason. Regardless of what initiated their call, they each
needed a resume.
But they have
another thing in common. They are all major procrastinators. Susan made several
appointments. And, true to form, she changed the appointment day
or time at least three times. We finally got her resume together
although she did miss out on the original job her friend had encouraged
her to apply for.
Stan had a phenomenal
personality, an incredible background and unique, marketable skills.
He was under employed at his present position, but was "comfortable." Hanging in there and stalling were easy for him. Shaking up his
world was somewhat scary.
Pete proceeded
to call me with a question or two every week or so. This continued
every week for about four months! We discussed the job market. He
asked about my background. Asked about how long an appointment would
take. Asked for directions to my office. Asked for my e-mail address.
Asked about the technical aspects of e-mailing resumes. Everything
except actually making a concrete appointment. I think he's actually "ready" and scheduled for an appointment next week. Hmmm!
Want to place any bets?
I encouraged
each of these clients to start the daunting task of completing their
goal. One step at a time. As obvious as it seems, the best way to
get something done is ---- to begin!
For some, procrastination
is almost a fear of success. Most people, regardless of whether
or not they might consider themselves procrastinators, look at resume
preparation as a chore, certainly not a fun activity. Getting the
resume off the "To Do List" elicits reactions of anything
from a sigh of relief to beaming with sheer exhilaration.
After we've
got the resume completed, the reminder comes. The only thing scarier
than NOT having a resume, is now having one and getting out there
and doing something with it!
But then someone
once told me, "It isn't procrastination if you put it off right
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